Have you ever stopped and wondered why your style feels “off” — even when you’re putting in the effort? Sometimes, the reason goes much deeper than the clothes in your wardrobe.

Early Experiences Shape Your Style

One of my long-term clients once shared a story that instantly made everything click. As a child, her mother — facing financial challenges — often dressed her in second-hand clothes. These weren’t the stylish preloved pieces we see today. Instead, they were items she remembers feeling frumpy in, clothes that “did not feel like her” at all.

While there’s nothing wrong with preloved clothing, the key takeaway is this: early experiences can shape how we see ourselves.

How Childhood Conditioning Affects Adult Style Choices

Growing up, my client believed she “wasn’t stylish.” Even as a successful professional woman, she continued to choose clothes that hid her instead of elevating her. Her wardrobe was full of shapeless, outdated pieces — mostly in dark colors — leaving her feeling invisible. She described it as feeling “like a little mouse.”

This example shows just how powerful early conditioning can be.

🎥 Watch the 1-minute video below 👇to hear the full story.

Common Signs Your Style May Be Blocked

If you’ve ever felt:

• “Why do I feel frumpy?”
• “Why do I keep buying the wrong pieces?”
• “How to stop feeling unsure about what suits me?”
• “Why do I play it safe, even when I want more?”

…there may be a deeper reason than you realise.

Take a Moment to Reflect

Take just 5 minutes today and ask yourself: “What’s really holding back my style?” Your answer might surprise you — and uncover a path to a wardrobe that truly reflects who you are.

If You Want Support, I’m Here. Sometimes we need a little guidance to break old patterns and step into a style that truly reflects our confidence, personality, and presence.

Tell me in the comments or send me a message: What do YOU think is holding your style back right now?? Your story could help another woman find her “aha” moment.

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Natalia x

ABOUT US: Sydney’s leading personal stylist, Natalia Macri, with over a decade of experience, knows how to transform your wardrobe and style from drab to fab. Shespecialises in helping women make the right choices for their body type, lifestyle, and personality. But more than anything, she loves making you feel and look fantastic! Natalia brings 15+ years of practical experience, expertise, and knowledge, along with her passion for delivering style results. Whether it’s a Wardrobe Detox, Personal Shopping, Style Makeover, or other styling services, you can find them HERE.